We see you at your worst and see you at your best, but there is no better reward to see you succeed. Here are some of the aspects of the therapeutic relationship that are either unknowns or common misconceptions. I hope this clarifies what you can expect from working with me the therapist.
I don’t think you’re unbalanced.
I think you are amazingly unique trying to find your way in the world.None of us is perfect and I surely don’t expect you to be anywhere close to mastery when you’re learning new skills to change your life. Effective change usually requires trial and lots of errors, it means you’re trying! .
I’m not here to give advice.
I’m here to share my knowledge with you and help you make your own decisions that are balanced, rational, and well-explored. Strengthening your own reasoning and decision making skills will increase your independence and self-esteem.
I can’t “fix” your life or your problems, only you can.
I can help you gain more clarity ,more understanding and form a plan of action, but therapy is not a magic pill that erases all issues.it takes work, but if you’re up for the challenge, I’ll be there every step of the way.
I want you to have the life you want.
I know your struggles, your dreams, you’re insecurities. There is nothing I want more for you than for you to bring your dreams into reality, push through your fears, and have the life you want. your success is the ultimate gift to me as a therapist.
People come to therapy for all kids of reasons. usually people are experiencing a moderate level of discomfort in their lives and have noticed a toll on their work/school performance and in there relationships. Beginning therapy can be scary for some as they are showing a willingness to face tough topics, but for others, it’s a huge relief to finally be taking action to move in a different direction. Therapy isn’t always easy, but I think it’s the most worthwhile gift you can give yourself. find someone you thrust and who puts you at ease. The relationship you build with your therapist is the most important aspect in learning you are never alone.